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I really want for a company to come out and say “I don’t support biracial marriage” or better yet, “I don’t support heterosexual marriage” and see how people react. Not that that would be the same as the situation currently at hand with several corporations, considering this situation is a matter…
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I hate the word homophobia.
It is not a phobia.
You are not scared.
You are just an asshole.
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Controversial Magazine Cover of the Day: When Time magazine released its mom-breastfeeding-3-year-old cover last week, Newsweek’s Tina Brown laughed and promised: “Let the games begin.”
And so they have — Newsweek released its latest cover Sunday, and the furor is directed not so much at Obama’s rainbow halo but the title of Andrew Sullivan’s accompanying story: “The First Gay President.”
Barack Obama had to come out of a different closet. He had to discover his black identity and then reconcile it with his white family, just as gays discover their homosexual identity and then have to reconcile it with their heterosexual family. The America he grew up in had no space for a boy like him: black yet enveloped by loving whiteness, estranged from a father he longed for (another common gay experience), hurtling between being a Barry and a Barack, needing an American racial identity as he grew older but chafing also against it and over-embracing it at times.
This is the gay experience: the discovery in adulthood of a community not like your own home and the struggle to belong in both places, without displacement, without alienation. It is easier today than ever. But it is never truly without emotional scar tissue. Obama learned to be black the way gays learn to be gay. And in Obama’s marriage to a professional, determined, charismatic black woman, he created a kind of family he never had before, without ever leaving his real family behind. He did the hard work of integration and managed to create a space in America for people who did not have the space to be themselves before. And then as president, he constitutionally represented us all.
The comparison of Obama’s struggle with racial identity to the struggle of coming out is quite a stretch. But as Sullivan is one of the most prominent and respected gay writers in the country, his words obviously are not meant to offend. Coining Obama “the first gay president” is merely a savvy money-making move.
Meanwhile, Brown says today: “If President Clinton was the ‘first black president’ then Obama earns every stripe in that ‘gaylo’ with last week’s gay marriage proclamation.Newsweek’s cover pays tribute to his newly ordained place in history.”
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Marketing Campaign of the Day: A new campaign called “Freedom to Serve, Freedom to Marry” — whose debut video will give you chills — takes aim at the Defense of Marriage Act and its impact on gay and lesbian military families. The video follows the devastating trajectory of a lesbian relationship when one of the women serves in Afghanistan.
Evan Wolfson, the founder of Freedom to Marry, one of the organizations behind the campaign, spells it out for us:
Many people assume that, with the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” gay men and lesbians serving our country are now being treated fairly and equally, but that’s not the case. We ended the ban on open military service for gay and lesbian Americans, but there is still federal ban on treating married service members as what they are: married.
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My name is Mark. I am gay. Throughout my life I have faced struggles. We all have. Each one of us has a story that makes us who we are. Each one of us makes choices in our life that defines our stories. Each one of our stories intertwines with the stories of other people. I do not know your story, but this is my platform to get to know your story. This is my platform to make the world a better place for you and for me, no matter what your religion, race, sexuality, or story. I am here to tell you my story and share with you the things that I come across in my life, virtually and in reality. All I ask in return is that you share your story with me.